add virtio and vhost-user functions to connect with QEMU.

  $ ./passt --vhost-user

and

  # qemu-system-x86_64 ... -m 4G \
        -object memory-backend-memfd,id=memfd0,share=on,size=4G \
        -numa node,memdev=memfd0 \
        -chardev socket,id=chr0,path=/tmp/passt_1.socket \
        -netdev vhost-user,id=netdev0,chardev=chr0 \
        -device virtio-net,mac=9a:2b:2c:2d:2e:2f,netdev=netdev0 \
        ...

Signed-off-by: Laurent Vivier <lvivier@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: David Gibson <david@gibson.dropbear.id.au>
[sbrivio: as suggested by lvivier, include <netinet/if_ether.h>
 before including <linux/if_ether.h> as C libraries such as musl
 __UAPI_DEF_ETHHDR in <netinet/if_ether.h> if they already have
 a definition of struct ethhdr]
Signed-off-by: Stefano Brivio <sbrivio@redhat.com>